MY BOOK WORLD
If this book wasn’t a best-seller in 2019, it should have been. Easy to read and digest, the book explores the entire scale of one’s life: birth, childhood, adulthood, middle-age, young-old, and old-old. Aronson boldly shares her experiences as a doctor who loves working for and with the elderly. She reveals that when people hear the word “old,” they think: wrinkled, bent over, slow moving, bald, and white hair. When people hear the word elder, however, they think respect, leader, experience, power, money, and knowledge.
The book isn’t entirely anecdotal; Aronson weaves in lots of data, lots of science, much of it contradicting the current (and for the last fifty years) “wisdom” on how to treat the elderly (mostly by isolation and medicating them as if their bodies were still younger). With the population of elders in this world only growing by the day, she calls for a new way of thinking about the old. New ways would treat the elderly as individuals, as if their lives still mattered, not just their bodies. Physicians don’t mind keeping the old bodies alive; in fact, they almost insist on it. Yet they don’t necessarily want to handle the rest of the old body: the brain, the emotions such as loneliness, fear, and anxiety.
I read this while a loved one of mine (an elderly) was in the hospital and now rehab. The author’s words helped tide me over, so that I might make better decisions for him. Again, well worth the time. Aronson is a fine writer, an excellent physician, but most of all, a caring human being. I wish she were my doctor.
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